Sunday, January 24, 2016

Jordan's Birthday



When we finally returned from our big holiday trip...and the decorations were finally put away...and we finally got everyone back to work and school....it was time to celebrate Jordan Marie's birthday!!!  It was a big one as she turned 12!!!  So exciting!  Jordan loves her birthday and always makes big plans! And this year did not disappoint with lots of celebrations for this gal.

First, birthday week started with a lunch date with Mom and Luke, of course to Burger King where she downed a Whopper in 4 minutes flat.  We had fun with Luke who insisted on getting Dad's soda to drink (Dr. Pepper) but we tricked him by getting Root Beer instead (our fav)...He refused to drink it and told us it was a "new kind" he didn't like!



That evening we had a really fun get together for our girl.  We had been trying to think of something where Jordan could include everyone that she loves...her school friends, church friends, etc.  We came up with the idea of an ice cream sundae open house.  I have to say that Ashton helped so much to pull this whole thing off.  She is a great party planner!  Never fear, it turned out to be the coldest day we have had yet this winter with a high around 0 degrees...the perfect day for ice cream!  But it was warm in our house, especially surrounded by so many wonderful people.  Jordan is so very loved, and we really love everyone who came by.  Really great night!








The next day was her actual birthday which started with a new birthday outfit.  If you know Jordan well, it won't surprise you that she ordered up some Casey's pizza for lunch.  Luke and I were happy to deliver it to her at school.  After school, it was time for her traditional birthday treasure hunt where she scored some fun gifts.  And as usual, she was a great sport about letting others help open all her gifts.







Next, it was off to Culvers for some birthday dinner.  We were so happy to have the Despains join us there, they are just like family to us.  And Jordan was so excited because it was her first night to attend Young Women's (youth group) at church.  She is finally 12 and ready to take the next step into this amazing program.


Her birthday celebrations weren't quite over...she got to go out to eat with some of her favorite people in the world, Jackie and Tanner.  They were her primary teachers when they first moved here, and have loved her ever since.  She was totally spoiled with Olive Garden and Whitey's.  We sure love the Clarks!

Grandma and Grandpa along with the cousins came up for the weekend, and of course, we had to throw in one more birthday dinner and celebration.  And Sunday was a special day as it was her first day in Young Women's.  I am so glad I get to be in there with her too.


And now our girl is 12.  This is what I posted on facebook about her on her special day:

"My girl is 12 today! I remember the cold Iowa afternoon when she was born. She's been bringing sunshine to January ever since...she is outgoing, fun, sporty and helpful... And we love her more than words can say. Happy 12th birthday Jordan Marie!"



Twelve things about Jordan at age 12:

1. She is still Miss Sporty- she loves basketball and soccer (goalie), but her true love is softball.  She has worked year round on improving her pitching, and we are so proud of her hard work.
2. Jordan has really picked up on piano this year.  Most of it, she has done on her own.  Her songs for Christmas recital were hard, and she nailed them.  She is also still doing viola- sometimes she doesn't really like it, but she has made a lot of progress.  She even made it into honors orchestra and honors choir.
3. Middle school has been a big adjustment for Jordan.  She has done really well, but it hasn't been easy.  She is learning lots of life lessons from her hard experiences.  She is learning about being different and standing out from the crowd.  She has enjoyed her TAG class and has worked hard to keep up with the 7th and 8th graders.
4. Jordan is so ready for Young Women's.  She is growing up spiritually.  She asks a lot of questions and is a deep thinker.  She is excited to go to the temple.
5. Jordan is still my right hand man.  I can almost always count on her to help me out, especially with Luke.  While Tod was in Germany, she did so much for me.  And the whole time that he has been the Bishop, she has just been amazing.  I don't think I would have ever survived bedtime without her. Usually she just takes Luke downstairs to play so I can concentrate on Regan and Cole.  Luke absolutely adores her.
6. Jordan has learned to sacrifice for others.  She is willing to give up things for others.  I always tell her that she is going to be a great mom.
7. Jordan is really funny.  She sees humor in lots of things and laughs easily.  She and I like to share funny stories and experiences at the end of the day.
8. Jordan is good at talking to others.  She loves to talks to adults and will often share with me interesting conversations she has had with her teachers and coaches.
9.  Jordan is so patient with Luke.  Often, she has energy for him when I seem to have none.  I am amazed at how well she does with him, even when he is difficult.
10. She is very close with her Dad.  I think she missed him the most out of the kids when he was in Germany.  She really values his opinion and enjoys spending time with him.
11.  Jordan is so determined.  If she gets something in her mind, she is going to do it.  Watch out world.
12.  I feel so lucky to be this girl's mom.  As she has gotten older, and a bit of teenage tension has crept into our relationship, I still look at her and see my chubby, bright eyed smiling baby girl.  She has always brought so much happiness.  Looking forward to a great year Beans!!


Sunday, October 11, 2015

Michigan Trip

So it is no secret that I love BYU.  And I love BYU football.  So when we found out they would be playing against Michigan in Ann Arbor, we knew that we would love to go.  While Tod was in Germany, we decided to really make it a reality and make some serious plans.  First obstacle...those 5 kiddos who need to be watched...and both our faithful babysitters were going to be out of town the same weekend.  When I asked Tod's mom if she and Steve would come up, she said they would be glad to make the trip.  And of course the kids were thrilled.  It was so nice to leave them in such capable hands.  There was so much going on that I had to leave a typed up schedule of details and events (soccer games, soccer treats, soccer tournaments, women's conference at church, etc.)  Such an ordeal to leave a family, and I am so grateful to all who helped out.
Next obstacle...my temporary teaching job...but I got approval to just teach half day Friday and get a sub for the other half.  Done!  And we were on our way.  Tod picked me up at the school (after a tearful good bye to my little Cole- man), and we grabbed some quick lunch at our favorite Capriotti's.  The drive was long, but so enjoyable...it is amazing how easy and pleasant driving can be when it is only the 2 of us.  Of course, we missed the kids (a little bit!?), but life was pretty grand.  And it wasn't long until we entered the great state of Michigan.
We spent our first night in downtown Detroit.  Despite all the stories and Cindy's worryings, we found it fairly safe and very enjoyable.  The baseball stadium was beautiful and the fall weather was perfect to take in a Detroit Tigers game.







Our hotel was stunning and had an amazing view of the city.

The next morning we headed to Ann Arbor...again, the weather was absolutely perfect and for us who are lovers of college football, the environment was unbeatable.



We got to see several old friends, and that was definitely fun!
We had great seats and I loved watching BYU take the field.  I still get so excited!



And I can't really say much about the rest of the actual game part because BYU did awful and got creamed.  But good thing I was with my best friend, and we still had a great time being together.

When Tod was gone for those many weeks during the summer, I missed him so much.  I kept thinking to myself, "I can do this because I get to go to Michigan with him!"  And it was worth every bit of the wait.  Away from the kids, the pressures of real life, jobs, church, etc., we have a great relationship.  We enjoy the same things, and we have fun together.  After almost 15 years, we still have lots to talk about and lots to experience.   I love being with him, and he likes me too.  We make a great team.
(We spent our second night in the Chicago area where we enjoyed a trip to IKEA and a yummy dinner at Cheddar's).  Such a great weekend.

Monday, August 31, 2015

Back to School Again!

The first week of school is in the books, so I wanted to get these back to school pictures posted before the whole year zooms by!  Everyone was excited (and a little nervous) for the big day.
First, bright and early, the elementary kids headed out:
Cole is entering 1st grade!

And Regan is in 3rd grade!




We got to the school so early, we had to sit in the parking lot for a few minutes!  Surely a once in a lifetime occurrence for us!  These two were just so excited and ready.  They loved seeing old teachers and friends, and it was a beautiful morning.
After they assured me that I could leave (it was more me lingering around hoping they needed me...which they did not), I headed home to help the girls off to middle school.
Jordan is starting 6th grade!


And Ashton is in 8th grade!




These two weren't quite as zippy as the elementary kids, but they were still excited.  I am so glad they got to go to middle school together.  When I dropped them off, my heart skipped a bit as I watched them head into the sea of students.  But then I saw Ashton motion for Jordan and her friend to stay with her...and I instantly felt better.  Still as we pulled away, it was hard.  From the backseat, Luke was saying "bye Ashty, bye Jordy."   We will miss all the kiddos while they are away for the day, but I am so thankful they have the opportunity to attend school.  They will have the chance to learn and to grow, to face hard challenges and to have successes.

Looking forward to a great 2015-2016 school year.

Regan's 10th Birthday!