Mom's Day

I had a great Mother's Day...complete with handmade gifts/cards, items from my "wish list", special songs sung by my girls at church, and a yummy meal with some of my favorite friends. It was a good day.

Of course, my thoughts are never far from my own mom. But instead of feeling sadness for her not being here, I tried to focus on what she gave me....a love of motherhood. From an early age, I can remember really knowing that my mom loved being a mom! It always seemed to be her highest priority. And I can truly say that I, as well, love motherhood. It is extremely hard and a lot of work, and I have much improving to do...but I do love it. I think I value it even more because my time with my mom was far to short.

I have been blessed with an amazing mother-in-law and a special step mother. We probably don't recognize them enough on Mother's Day, because it is a little bit of a tough day for me. I'm glad that they understand. I am thankful to both of these women for being there for me and for my kids as wonderful grandmas. I am thankful to my mother-in-law for raising a righteous, patient son. She did a good job!

I am also thankful for my grandmas, especially my Grandma Betty. She is such an incredible person who has played such a big role in my life. She has spent her life taking care of others, including my mom. Now, Gram's own health is declining and she is suffering. It is hard to accept, but now it is our turn to take care of her. I feel so helpless being so far away from her. Even with her pain and discomfort, she tries to be upbeat and positive on the phone and always wants to know about my family. And she still sends cards for every birthday, event and holiday. I love her.

Happy Mother's Day Everyone!

What a difference a day makes....

Today, Cole got a haircut from Dad. Another great friend snapped a picture of him at Ashton's soccer game this morning (good thing I have friends with nice cameras, right?) I can't believe how grown up my baby boy looks.

This Guy...

This guy is really something. Yes, he needs a hair cut and yes, I am having a hard accepting the fact that he is no longer a little baby! My friend took this amazing picture of Cole today...love him so much. Also, love the one of me and my "littles" as I call my 2 youngest. This is my life...

Memories of March

Tod was travelling for almost the entire month of March, so we had some adventures. This was unchartered territory for me as he has never been gone for that long before. What an experience! He spent the first week of the month in Texas and he was then home for 2 days before leaving for Washington DC. While he was home we celebrated Cole's 1st birthday! We had to squeeze the celebration between about 5 other events, but we got it in!

Things to remember about Cole's big day- how much he loved his CAT ride on truck, how much his sisters smothered him with love, how much he hated the cake, and how much we absolutely adore that boy!

The following weekend was the annual St. Patrick's Day Race. For us, this has been an Iowa tradition but I hesistated to sign the girls up this year since I knew I would be on my own. But, I decided to buck up and we made it to the race (on time!) and had a lot of fun (in the rain!).

About the time I thought I was going to go insane, my dear sis, Melissa arrived with her two girls. She literally saved me! She was such a good help to me and an absolute delight to have a round. We survived 10 days with 6 children under the age of 7 and actually fared pretty well! (Only one trip to the urgent care!) So thanks to Mel for cooking, cleaning, tending, listening, consoling, laughing, remembering, being silly, being patient and just loving us for us. It is sometimes scary to let someone see all your family's "dirty laundry" (figuratively and literally!). She was a great sport and I missed her and Maya and Skye so much when they left....still do. Can't wait to see them this summer.

We picked Tod up at the airport on March 26 and boy, were we thrilled to see that guy. I was so excited, I mangaged to get us lost on the way to the airport (yes, the local airport)! He is an incredible dad and husband with such a huge presence/role in our family. The day he left was so depressing for all of us. When he is gone, he is someone you really miss...and we were so ready to have him back!

February Fun!

What we did in February...lots of Valentine's Day celebrating, crafting homemade cards, trying to make up for last year when I did nothing for the holiday, remembering Grandma Kim (she would have turned 60), surviving one of Tod's business trips, enjoying headbands made by our fabulous neighbor, getting hair cuts for 11 month old Cole and Regan, going to build a bear, building snowmen, playing/coaching basketball and enjoying the 2nd grade's celebration of Chinese New Year!

Good-Bye January!!!

Dear January:

I have such mixed feelings about you. There are things I like about you and things I don't like about you, especially this year.

Things I loved about you this year, January-

1. Celebrating Jordan's 6th birthday and making her dream come true of getting the American Girl doll, Ruthie

2. Organizing like crazy- got Jordan and Cole's room mostly done, all bathrooms cleaned out, hall closet and kitchen done.

3. My kitchen makeover- for the first time since our wedding, we have matching dishes, enough silverware, and my dream come true, RED cookware! (Thanks to the hubby, I know he would have rather had a new TV)

4. Finally, hanging a mirror in our living room, especially after talking about it for 3 years!

5. Reading, reading, reading- I've enjoyed several good books and the girls and I are moving through the American Girl books (even Dad takes his turns every other night)

6. Having the month off from my college classes

7. Coaching Ashton's basketball team- so much fun and these girls are really improving!

8. Crafting away and being lazy on snow days...can you say Mario Kart on the Wii?

Things I didn't like about January-

1. Always feeling cold

2. The stomach flu, ear infection and RSV for various family members

3. The fact that Cole will STILL not sleep through the night

4. The mess that is called our basement

So there you have it. The good outweighs the bad, but I am never too sad to see you go. I'm ready for February.

Love,

The Mama

Regarding the pictures- Had to include the photo Regan took of me, loved the expression on Cole's face in his pic and don't know why I don't have any pictures of Ashton from this month!

My Jordan is Six!!!

Today is a big day for us....Jordan's 6th birthday. No one anticipates or embraces a birthday like Jordan. I just returned from having lunch with her at school and it seemed that at least half of the staff (teachers, lunch ladies, aides, etc.) knew it was her birthday because at some point she had had a conversation with them about it! She got up bright and early this morning, dawned her new birthday outifit, combed her newly cut hair and inquired at least 10 times about opening presents! (We wait until after dinner at our house) There is one thing that she wants very much...we will have to wait and see.

For now...I am so thankful for this sweet girl in my life. She has brought so much happiness, joy and love. SIX things to remember about Jordan:

1. She just has a way to people's hearts, something about her sweet ways.

2. Although she is sweet, this gal does have a temper- as soon as she started kindergarten this year, we really saw that side come out more than ever. If she gets mad, watch out!!!

3. Jordan knows what she wants in life- whether it's the color of her shirt, the flavor of ice cream, or the activity of choice...she has an opinion and will not be swayed. Peer pressure means nothing to her which for the most part is a good thing! She makes a choice and sticks with it.

4. She is a great sister- loves to play with Ashthon, lets Regan have her way and takes care of Cole. I can't believe how patient she is with Cole, probably more than me a lot of the time.

5. Right now, favorite activities include playing Wii, anything artsy, Barbies, playing in the tent downstairs, and learning to read.

6. Jordan loves spending time with the people that she loves, whether it's running errands or just chatting, she loves to be together.

Happy Birthday Beanie!